:root{--lightningcss-light:initial;--lightningcss-dark: ;color-scheme:light;--bg:#f2f0e9;--fg:#343434;--strong:#202020;--soft:#686760;--line:#d9d7d0;--raised:#faf9f6;--danger:#a63b31;background:var(--bg);color:var(--fg);font-family:ui-sans-serif,-apple-system,BlinkMacSystemFont,Segoe UI,Apple SD Gothic Neo,Malgun Gothic,sans-serif}@media (prefers-color-scheme:dark){:root:not([data-theme=light]){--lightningcss-light: ;--lightningcss-dark:initial;color-scheme:dark;--bg:#151515;--fg:#dedbd4;--strong:#f6f4ee;--soft:#a6a49e;--line:#343434;--raised:#202020;--danger:#ed958c}}:root[data-theme=dark]{--lightningcss-light: ;--lightningcss-dark:initial;color-scheme:dark;--bg:#151515;--fg:#dedbd4;--strong:#f6f4ee;--soft:#a6a49e;--line:#343434;--raised:#202020;--danger:#ed958c}*{box-sizing:border-box}body{margin:0}html{scroll-padding-top:var(--header-height,6rem);scrollbar-gutter:stable}button,input,textarea,select{font:inherit;color:inherit}button,a,input,textarea,select,summary{touch-action:manipulation}a{color:inherit;text-underline-offset:.25em;text-decoration-thickness:1px}button{cursor:pointer}button:disabled{cursor:wait;opacity:.55}button,.button{border:1px solid var(--line);background:0 0;border-radius:6px;justify-content:center;align-items:center;gap:.5rem;padding:.65rem 1rem;line-height:1.2;text-decoration:none;display:inline-flex}.quiet{text-underline-offset:.25em;border:0;padding:0;text-decoration:underline}.primary{background:var(--strong);color:var(--bg);border-color:var(--strong)}.danger{color:var(--danger)}button:hover,.button:hover{border-color:var(--fg)}:focus-visible{outline:2px solid var(--soft);outline-offset:2px}input:focus-visible,textarea:focus-visible,select:focus-visible{outline-offset:-2px}input,textarea,select{outline-offset:-2px;border:1px solid var(--line);background:0 0;border-radius:5px;width:100%;padding:.8rem}textarea{field-sizing:content;resize:vertical;line-height:1.7}label{margin-bottom:.5rem;font-size:.85rem;display:block}label>input,label>textarea,label>select{margin-top:.65rem;display:block}h1,h2,h3,p{margin-top:0}h1,h2,h3{color:var(--strong);letter-spacing:-.035em;font-weight:450}h1{font-size:clamp(2.5rem,5vw,4.7rem);line-height:1.08}h2{font-size:2rem;line-height:1.2}h3{font-size:1.3rem}p{line-height:1.8}small,.muted{color:var(--soft)}small{font-size:.78rem}.eyebrow{letter-spacing:.1em;text-transform:uppercase;color:var(--soft);font-size:.7rem}.wrap{--page-gutter:clamp(1.25rem, 5vw, 5rem);max-width:1460px;padding:0 var(--page-gutter);margin:auto}.site-header{z-index:20;background:var(--bg);margin-inline:calc(-1 * var(--page-gutter));padding:.85rem var(--page-gutter);justify-content:space-between;align-items:center;gap:1rem;display:flex;position:sticky;top:0}.wordmark{white-space:nowrap;color:var(--strong);letter-spacing:-.04em;font-size:1.2rem;text-decoration:none}.site-header nav{flex-wrap:wrap;align-items:center;gap:1.5rem;font-size:.8rem;line-height:1.4;display:flex}.site-header nav a{text-decoration:none}.nav-about{inline-size:3.1em}.nav-account{white-space:nowrap;text-align:center;inline-size:4.25em}.intro{max-width:720px;padding:2rem 0 2.5rem}.intro .eyebrow{margin-bottom:1.4rem}.intro p{max-width:480px;color:var(--soft)}.category-list{flex-wrap:wrap;gap:.65rem 1.25rem;padding:0 0 2.5rem;font-size:.78rem;display:flex}.category-list a{color:var(--soft);text-decoration:none}.category-list a[aria-current]{color:var(--strong);text-decoration:underline}.pair{border-top:1px solid var(--line);padding:1.5rem 0 2rem}.pair-meta{color:var(--soft);justify-content:space-between;gap:1rem;margin-bottom:2rem;font-size:.73rem;display:flex}.pair-meta a{text-decoration:none}.pair-grid{grid-template-columns:minmax(0,1fr) minmax(0,1fr);column-gap:clamp(3rem,7vw,7rem);display:grid}.piece{grid-row:1;min-width:0;max-width:64ch;scroll-margin-top:1.5rem;position:relative}.legacy-post-anchor{scroll-margin-top:1.5rem;position:absolute;top:0}.piece.husband{grid-column:1}.piece.wife{grid-column:2}.author-line{align-items:baseline;gap:1rem;margin-bottom:1.7rem;font-size:.78rem;display:flex}.author-name{white-space:nowrap}.author-dot{background:var(--fg);border-radius:50%;flex-shrink:0;width:7px;height:7px}.wife .author-dot{border:1px solid var(--fg);background:0 0}.piece h2{margin-bottom:1.1rem;font-size:clamp(1.7rem,2.8vw,2.7rem)}.post-permalink{text-decoration:none}.post-permalink:hover,.post-permalink:focus-visible{text-decoration:underline}.piece-date{color:var(--soft);flex-wrap:wrap;gap:.6rem;margin-bottom:2.4rem;font-size:.73rem;display:flex}.reply-label{color:var(--soft);overflow-wrap:anywhere;min-width:0;font-size:.73rem}.piece-content{min-width:0}@media (width>=761px){.piece{grid-template-rows:subgrid;grid-row:1/span 5;align-items:start;display:grid}.piece>.author-line{grid-row:1}.piece>h2{grid-row:2}.piece>.piece-date{grid-row:3}.piece>.piece-content{grid-row:4}.piece>.piece-actions{grid-row:5}}.prose{overflow-wrap:anywhere;font-size:1.02rem;line-height:1.9}.prose p{margin-bottom:1.4rem;line-height:1.9}.prose h2{margin-top:2.5rem;font-size:1.55rem}.prose h3{margin-top:2rem}.prose blockquote{border-left:1px solid var(--soft);color:var(--soft);margin:2rem 0;padding-left:1.5rem}.prose img{max-width:100%;height:auto;margin:2rem 0;display:block}.photo-strip{--strip-bleed:1rem;--strip-photo-height:clamp(13rem, 22vw, 19rem);width:calc(100% + 2 * var(--strip-bleed));margin:2rem calc(-1 * var(--strip-bleed));padding:0 var(--strip-bleed) .9rem;overscroll-behavior-inline:contain;scroll-snap-type:x proximity;scroll-padding-inline:var(--strip-bleed);scrollbar-width:thin;scrollbar-color:var(--line) transparent;gap:1rem;display:flex;overflow-x:auto}.photo-tile{scroll-snap-align:start;flex:none;margin:0}.prose .photo-strip img{height:var(--strip-photo-height);border-radius:12px;width:auto;max-width:none;margin:0;box-shadow:0 3px 12px #00000012}.photo-tile figcaption{width:0;min-width:100%;color:var(--soft);overflow-wrap:anywhere;margin-top:.7rem;font-size:.75rem;line-height:1.6}[data-comment-form] textarea{min-block-size:calc(3lh + 1.6rem);max-block-size:18rem;overflow-y:auto}.comment-submit-row{justify-content:end;align-items:center;gap:1rem;margin-top:.65rem;display:flex}.comment-submit-row [data-reply-target]{margin:0 auto 0 0}.comment-submit-row [data-reply-target]:empty{display:none}.comment-limit{text-align:right;color:var(--strong);margin:.4rem 0 0;font-size:.75rem}.comment-limit.at-limit{color:var(--danger)}.prose pre{white-space:pre-wrap;background:var(--raised);padding:1rem;font-size:.85rem}.prose li{margin:.45rem 0}.piece-actions{flex-wrap:wrap;align-items:center;gap:1.5rem;margin-top:2rem;font-size:.75rem;display:flex}.original-details{border-top:1px solid var(--line);margin-top:1.5rem;padding-top:1rem}.original-details summary{cursor:pointer;color:var(--soft);font-size:.75rem}.original-details .prose{margin-top:1.5rem}.pair-footer{gap:1.5rem;margin-top:2.5rem;font-size:.75rem;display:flex}.pagination{border-top:1px solid var(--line);justify-content:space-between;padding:2rem 0;font-size:.85rem;display:flex}.site-footer{border-top:1px solid var(--line);color:var(--soft);justify-content:space-between;gap:1rem;margin-top:5rem;padding:2rem 0;font-size:.7rem;display:flex}.narrow{max-width:720px;margin:auto;padding:4rem 0}.form-stack{grid-template-columns:minmax(0,1fr);gap:1.5rem;display:grid}.form-stack>*{min-width:0}.form-row{align-items:end;gap:1rem;display:flex}.form-row>*{flex:1}.notice{color:var(--soft);padding:1rem 0;font-size:.85rem;line-height:1.7}.error{color:var(--danger)}.comments-section{border-top:1px solid var(--line);max-width:760px;margin:2rem auto 0;padding-top:3rem}.comment-list{margin:2rem 0}.comment-list:empty,.status:empty{display:none}.comment-item{border-top:1px solid var(--line);padding:1.5rem 0;scroll-margin-top:1rem}.comment-item.is-reply{margin-left:2rem}.comment-meta{flex-wrap:wrap;align-items:center;gap:.75rem;margin-bottom:1rem;font-size:.75rem;display:flex}.author-badge{background:var(--strong);color:var(--bg);border-radius:5px;padding:.25rem .5rem}.comment-meta time{color:var(--soft);font-size:.78rem}.notification-link{justify-content:center;align-items:center;min-block-size:1.4em;inline-size:2.2rem;display:inline-flex;position:relative}.notification-link[aria-hidden=true]{visibility:hidden;pointer-events:none}.notification-link span{background:var(--strong);color:var(--bg);border-radius:1rem;padding:.25rem .35rem;font-size:.65rem;line-height:1;position:absolute;inset-block-start:-.45rem;inset-inline-end:-.05rem}.inbox-heading{justify-content:space-between;align-items:center;gap:1rem;display:flex}.inbox-heading h1{font-size:clamp(2rem,4vw,3rem)}.notification-item{border-top:1px solid var(--line);gap:.7rem;padding:1.5rem 0;display:grid}.notification-item.unread a{font-weight:600}.notification-item time{color:var(--soft);font-size:.75rem}.comment-body{overflow-wrap:anywhere;font-size:.95rem;line-height:1.8}.comment-controls{flex-wrap:wrap;align-items:center;gap:1rem;margin-top:1rem;font-size:.72rem;display:flex}.admin-heading{justify-content:space-between;align-items:center;gap:1.5rem;display:flex}.admin-heading h1{margin-bottom:0}.account-actions{justify-content:space-between;align-items:center;gap:2rem;margin-top:3rem;display:flex}.pending-item{color:var(--soft);padding:1rem 0;font-size:.8rem}.admin-tabs{flex-wrap:wrap;gap:1.5rem;margin:2rem 0 3rem;font-size:.85rem;display:flex}.admin-section{margin:3rem 0}.admin-row{border-top:1px solid var(--line);justify-content:space-between;align-items:start;gap:2rem;padding:1.25rem 0;display:flex}.admin-row p{margin:.5rem 0;font-size:.85rem}.draft-times{flex-wrap:wrap;gap:.25rem 1.25rem;margin-top:.75rem;display:flex}.draft-times small{display:block}.actions{flex-wrap:wrap;gap:.75rem;font-size:.75rem;display:flex}.editor-toolbar{flex-wrap:wrap;gap:.5rem;margin-bottom:.75rem;font-size:.75rem;display:flex}.editor-body{min-height:12rem;max-height:70vh;font-family:ui-monospace,monospace;font-size:.9rem;overflow-y:auto}.editor-preview{max-width:70ch;padding:2rem 0}.status{color:var(--soft);min-height:1.5rem;font-size:.75rem}.modal{background:var(--bg);width:calc(100% - 3rem);max-width:600px;color:var(--fg);border:1px solid var(--line);border-radius:10px;padding:2rem}.modal-actions{justify-content:space-between;margin-top:1.5rem}.modal::backdrop{background:#0006}.modal h2{font-size:1.6rem}.modal textarea{min-height:160px}.skip-link{position:absolute;top:-5rem;left:1rem}.skip-link:focus{background:var(--bg);z-index:30;padding:1rem;top:1rem}.empty{color:var(--soft);padding:1.5rem 0 2rem}.archive-row{border-top:1px solid var(--line);grid-template-columns:110px 1fr;gap:1rem;padding:1.5rem 0;display:grid}.archive-row a{text-decoration:none}.count-button[aria-pressed=true]{background:var(--strong);color:var(--bg);border-color:var(--strong)}@media (width<=760px){.photo-strip{--strip-bleed:var(--page-gutter);--strip-photo-height:15rem}.site-header{padding-block:.6rem}.site-header nav{grid-template-columns:3.1em 2.2rem 4.3em;gap:.35rem .65rem;display:grid}.site-header .nav-about{grid-area:1/1}.site-header .language-switch{grid-area:1/2/auto/4;justify-content:end}.site-header .nav-account{text-align:start;grid-area:2/1;justify-self:start}.site-header .notification-link{grid-area:2/2}.site-header .theme-toggle{grid-area:2/3}.intro{padding:1.5rem 0 2rem}.pair-grid{flex-direction:column;gap:3.5rem;display:flex}.piece.original{order:0}.piece.reply{border-top:1px solid var(--line);order:1;padding-top:2rem}.piece h2{font-size:2rem}.pair{padding:2rem 0}.admin-row{flex-direction:column;gap:1rem}.form-row{flex-direction:column;align-items:stretch}.site-footer{flex-wrap:wrap}.archive-row{grid-template-columns:1fr;gap:.4rem}}@media (prefers-reduced-motion:no-preference){html{scroll-behavior:smooth}button,a{transition:color .1s,border-color .1s,background .1s}}.theme-toggle{font-size:inherit;white-space:nowrap;text-align:end;inline-size:4.3em;line-height:inherit;text-decoration:none}.language-switch{white-space:nowrap;align-items:center;gap:.45rem;display:inline-flex}.language-switch a{color:var(--soft);text-decoration:none}.language-switch a[aria-current]{color:var(--strong);text-decoration:underline}.sr-only{clip:rect(0, 0, 0, 0);white-space:nowrap;border:0;width:1px;height:1px;margin:-1px;padding:0;position:absolute;overflow:hidden}[hidden]{display:none}